Are you currently dating in a relationship with a guy, and it seems to you that he’s afraid of being committed to you? I’ve learned by doing a little research that some men become very uncomfortable when it comes to settling down when it comes to women. So you may be thinking to yourself, why is the felling this way?
Here are some reasons why men are afraid of commitment!
1. He hasn’t truly grown up!
For a lot of men it can take a little longer to grow up than women. It takes a certain amount of time and maturity to get to the point to when he’s ready to be truly committed.
If he’s not yet matured he’s not ready to consider the wants and needs of others above his own.
2. His past(history)!
When you have learned about his past relationships, even the ones involving his childhood, you will start to understand why he’s afraid of commitment.
He could be turning away from new relationships because of pain that was caused by a previous breakup before you. He may feel the needs need a little time until the feels comfortable in his new relationship with you.
3.He May Feel You Don’t Respect Him For Who He Is Right Now.
If the feels you don’t love and respect him for who the is right now, he’s thinking what will things be like in a few years from now? Or maybe 10-20 years from now?
Every man has his own dreams about what the future may hold for him and if you don’t seem as if you are supportive of his dreams, this can raise serious doubts that can be causing him to be afraid to commit to you.
4. He may feel the will have loss of free time.
Every man enjoys free time to himself and to do his own thing.He may feel that a serious relationship may take up an enormous amount of his time and energy and the may be thinking the doesn’t want that kind of pressure right now.
5.He may be feeling pressured by you.
Are you constant in his ear about it all the time and is it really getting to him? If you don’t want him to be afraid to commit to you, then you should allow him to reach that stage on his own. If you are constantly bringing it up, the may become upset with you and you will push him further away.
6.His close friends are afraid of commitment.
The majority of men will want to commit sooner or later. But the may not have wanted to be the first one out of his group of friends(buddies), feeling like the misses out on anything with his single friends.
7.He’s got other priorities.
He balances out everything- work, family, and friends. He may be feeling he’s got other areas in his life that the thinks need more attention, that this comes first and the will think of you later.
8.There’s someone else.
Hopefully this is not the case, but It is possible the may have someone else on his mind,it may be leaving him confused about what kind of future the wants for you and him. It is also possible the may not over his ex-girlfriend making him afraid to commit to you.
Understand that a lot of times men can be very difficult to read, plenty times it can hard to know what it is they really want. Men will tend to just let the relationship just fall into place without any pressure and you waiting for this to happen can be useless!
If you think you and your boyfriend should become more serious,( moving in together, or even talking about marriage), you should find a time to very gently talk to him.
This is when you can find out what it is the wants and where your relationship is going.You should make sure you don’t talk AT him and make sure the conversation is light and friendly, and you may be surprised at how the opens up to you!
Are you feeling lonely and frustrated by a man who is ignoring your
phone calls or you feel he’s taking you for granted ?
Are you wishing your man were more attentive, loving,
and noticed you more ?
Are you tired of taking second place in your relationship
and feeling under-loved, even ?
There are 3 seemingly harmless questions that will change
EVERYTHING and awaken his overwhelming feelings of love and devotion for you.
These 3 harmless questions that will awaken his love and devotion!
Once you ask these innocent questions, it’s going to
push any thoughts of other women and any other distractions
from his mind.
In fact, it’s going to shock his system so much it will give him
absolute certainty that you are the only woman he wants to
No matter what your situation, this will turn your man from
disinterested to devoted!
Even if he has stopped calling you or answering your texts..
This will make him beg for a second chance.
Even if you have been together a long time, and he’s acting distant,
ignoring you and treating you like an afterthought…
This will bring him back to you and make him shower you with love
in a way that will make your head spin and your heart sing.
These 3 harmless questions have a POWERFUL effect over a man.
It’s time you found out what they are and watch something amazing
happen to your man:
No more feeling inadequate. No more going to bed feeling alone
Watch the romance come back to life!
Hope this helps and thanks for reading,
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